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So, I was chatting in email with a fellow dh'er. Who stated a comment that said "men don't want to be propositioned, they want to be seduced".


I don't disupute that, and I know it don't apply to the hit it and quit it guys, players, and the assortment of undesirables. It only applies to the average guy lookin' for the same thing we are.


So, my thoughts on this, at the moment are somewhere along this ride, I've lost my ability to be "meek and mild", I just can't pull it off. I can bat my eyelashes and smile till the sun comes up, but, once I have a sincere interest in someone, it's obvious, and that seems to backfire one me, like you wouldn't believe. Anything different than that seems like a "game" to me, and I'm not into keeping score.


So, my question is for the guys, but I'd love women's input as well...

So boys, what do you personally respond to? Do you lose interest when she starts showing it?

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I think most guys want a little bit of both: for a girl to bat her eyelashes at him AND for her to show obvious interest in him. I know what you mean, because in the past when I showed this one guy that I was interested in him and started a convo with him, he played it off like it was a slutty thing for me to do and that I was only coming on to him to "get laid". As soon as I got that vibe from him and read between the lines from the crap he was saying to me, I immediately stopped talking to him and turned my attention to other people. Then he was like, "wtf" and then said I was stuck-up because I stopped talking to him! Sometimes a girl can't win. She's damned if she does and damned if she doesn't ~

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rubyred77
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Ditto! Yet, I can't really hide emotion! Is that what men really want? We can separate sex and love by this age, can men?

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I agree Candy...there's no winning.



Ruby..I have no idea..hopefully we find out here.

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I think I'm kinda confused, so I can't wait to see what the men folk say. I'm just wondering where is the line between seduction and pursuit.

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I don't know where that line is KK,..But, I got bruises on my forehead from repeatedly running into that line....I need ice.

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If it's too soon, it feels like a trap...

If you are lucky,you will find someone with the same fire that has the guts to stick around long enough to feel the real heart and show theirs back.
Good luck!.....it does happen sometimes

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Quote from candyeyes83:
I think most guys want a little bit of both: for a girl to bat her eyelashes at him AND for her to show obvious interest in him. I know what you mean, because in the past when I showed this one guy that I was interested in him and started a convo with him, he played it off like it was a slutty thing for me to do and that I was only coming on to him to "get laid". As soon as I got that vibe from him and read between the lines from the crap he was saying to me, I immediately stopped talking to him and turned my attention to other people. Then he was like, "wtf" and then said I was stuck-up because I stopped talking to him! Sometimes a girl can't win. She's damned if she does and damned if she doesn't ~


Sounds like a bridge burner, I keep my options open and like building. You never know what a connection could bring.

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Quote from jammil:
Sounds like a bridge burner, I keep my options open and like building. You never know what a connection could bring.



Umm...you mean like string them along and go back if nothing better comes along? I'm not pouncing, I'm just trying to understand that thought.



Pole...That must be it...I've just had a great run of bad luck. LOL

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Proposition me, Cin. See if I say no.

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I reckon that alot of the blokes enjoy the chase untill she finally give's in and then they get bored,maybe my statement is more for teenager's but ive seen that scenario with both adult genders.

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I get bored stiff . . . everyday.

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rubyred77
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Ok girls, it goes back to the theory that to each is his own! What I call seduction is usually done after I've not only tested the waters but loved the swim!lol Flirting is free game anywhere but I'm not going to put my hand on some guys leg the first night I meet him, however thinking back I kinda liked that one guy doing it!lolol

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Both are nice..kinda depends where you are in the relationship..if it's new..just starting out, slow seduction is best..foreplay just doesn't happen in the bedroom...proposition me when we have had some time to figure each other out...or I will...lol

What I respond to is intellectual stimuli as well as the physical..winks, nods, hair tosses..licking lips...(ok, I need ice)



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rubyred77
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Thanks guys, come on tell us more? What is flirting and what is seduction to you?

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Cindy...Talking about your luck!

As I see it, men do respond and want to hold on to that one of their desire!

Most of the time, the women wants to continue the chase even after you are caught, and men just don't get this concept!



[Edited 8/14/2010 1:39:52 PM ]

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Men are sometimes difficult to interpret. If you show NO interest, you might get more action from him. Or he may turn around and ignore you for ignoring him. Batting eyelashes, hell...since I was 2 years old. So everyone thinks I am flirting with them.

Telling him straight up the I am interested, has backfired on me several times. As has playing "aloof". Uhhhhhhhhhh, sigh...like Candy said, damned if you do and damned if you don't. Just keep doing what you do love, and eventually the right guy, in his right mind will see you for the gem you are.

Besides, I love you

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Quote from ldroftrollops:
So, I was chatting in email with a fellow dh'er. Who stated a comment that said "men don't want to be propositioned, they want to be seduced".


I don't disupute that, and I know it don't apply to the hit it and quit it guys, players, and the assortment of undesirables. It only applies to the average guy lookin' for the same thing we are.


So, my thoughts on this, at the moment are somewhere along this ride, I've lost my ability to be "meek and mild", I just can't pull it off. I can bat my eyelashes and smile till the sun comes up, but, once I have a sincere interest in someone, it's obvious, and that seems to backfire one me, like you wouldn't believe. Anything different than that seems like a "game" to me, and I'm not into keeping score.


So, my question is for the guys, but I'd love women's input as well...

So boys, what do you personally respond to? Do you lose interest when she starts showing it?


I do my own thing regardless

Too many eye lid batting and one gets immune to it

What do I mean I do my own thing?

This morning (Saturday) my usual ritual I went fishing (prospecting) I got tired in the book shop sat down to a cup of coffee I noticed a woman in her mid forties sitting opposite alone. Usual surveillance reveals ,no rings no male lurking etc. She seems agitated looking around etc

So I went to her and said

"Yours didn't turn up ? mine neither!" she was for a second either horrified or shocked but then very quickly smiled.

so while she was drinking her coffee and I was drinking mine we talked for an hour. I will be buying lunch tomorrow and who knows? I do my own thing regardless



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I personally try to be unquestionably positive. I don't try to play games like that. There's too little time in my life for that.

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I think the whole concept of showing "interest" is too vague. It can be hard to know the difference between flirting and simple friendliness. What kind of signal is being sent? What is being received? That is especially true when some guys are wanting to see something that is not there and some ladies are being something less than sincere. A lack of sincerity is the major problem in the way we interact. The key is to identify some one that you can respect, share with, and learn from. Then focus on that person for an extended period of time while you fully assess the level of long-term compatibility. That is rare with online dating.

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I have to agree with Alex. It's blown up in my face both ways...lol. I let a man know I was interested after chatting and flirting for a while and he got spooked and disappeared. So the next time I met a guy I was interested in (on another site), I flirted a little but not too forward. He finally asked for my number and we talked and everything was going great until he met another girl who came on like gang busters and I hardly hear from him anymore...lol. Funny thing was, the girl he was previously talking to (before me) according to him was "too clingy" so I thought I was doing the right thing. Go figure. I think everything has a way of working itself out in the long run. The name of the game is "Patience."

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Quote from alexinwondrlnd:
there is no simple answer to this question its just not that easy if it were we would all be in a happy relationship. Men think completely different than women do for us rencontre rh paris it tends to be show me what u got and for women its show me how u feel for most men and women not all



Interesting point. Because on one level we do think similiarly in regards to either gender wants to be seduced and not so much propositioned. However, it appears that our opinions of effective seduction (physical vs. Emotional) is where it differs,...apparently drastically. Thanks Alex.




I'll be back in a second, I got to finish reading the rest.

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Quote from sunny_bee:


Telling him straight up the I am interested, has backfired on me several times. As has playing "aloof". Uhhhhhhhhhh, sigh...like Candy said, damned if you do and damned if you don't. Just keep doing what you do love, and eventually the right guy, in his right mind will see you for the gem you are.

Besides, I love you



Thanks Sunny! I love you too Darlin'. And I agree, i've done it every way possible and still went home empty handed.



Silver-you are correct, it is vague terminology and sometimes hard to interpret...hence my being very direct. I'm fairly forward in all accounts regarding my life. So, I do understand what you're saying. However, confusion isn't the culprit in my world.

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What a good question Cin. Now that I think about it, it's not simple. My best relationships have been with women who were clear in what they wanted from me. However, it isn't aggressive behavior alone. I have not given every aggressive woman an opportunity. Timing is everything.

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Quote from ldroftrollops:
So, I was chatting in email with a fellow dh'er. Who stated a comment that said "men don't want to be propositioned, they want to be seduced".


I don't disupute that, and I know it don't apply to the hit it and quit it guys, players, and the assortment of undesirables. It only applies to the average guy lookin' for the same thing we are.


So, my thoughts on this, at the moment are somewhere along this ride, I've lost my ability to be "meek and mild", I just can't pull it off. I can bat my eyelashes and smile till the sun comes up, but, once I have a sincere interest in someone, it's obvious, and that seems to backfire one me, like you wouldn't believe. Anything different than that seems like a "game" to me, and I'm not into keeping score.


So, my question is for the guys, but I'd love women's input as well...

So boys, what do you personally respond to? Do you lose interest when she starts showing it?


Is "batting eyelashes" a figure of speech? If not I'd think a woman was crazy if she started batting her eyelashes at me. For me if a woman wears white see through figure hugging pants with a black thong underneath then she's seducing.

If a woman starts talking and I immediately lose interest, sometimes it's more of the things I assume based off of what she says and how she says it.

The times that I've been approached the women had a sort of exaggerated overly assertive personality.......I'm sort of a mild mannered reserved dude, so if you invade my space too quickly and strongly I'll step away......or at least if you don't do it right I'll step away.

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Crap...now, I've got timing to compete with? If I showed my aggresiveness for you Scott, I'd get my own thread pulled.

That being said, I absolutely agree, timing is very important, we're all at different points, emotionally and mentally in our singlehood and that is a huge factor in the "Art of connections"

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And I agree, i've done it every way possible and still went home empty handed.


From what I can tell the guys are either blind or stupid or both. I get the same thing,be emailing,then talk on the phone and everything is going to what i think is fine,with flirting and general conversation. Then all of a sudden nothing,they stop all contacts or replies,or,you set up the first date/meeting and they don't show up or even give you the respect to give an excuse why,just the all contact being cut off. I just dont get it.

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Quote from snoopy41265:
And I agree, i've done it every way possible and still went home empty handed.


From what I can tell the guys are either blind or stupid or both. I get the same thing,be emailing,then talk on the phone and everything is going to what i think is fine,with flirting and general conversation. Then all of a sudden nothing,they stop all contacts or replies,or,you set up the first date/meeting and they don't show up or even give you the respect to give an excuse why,just the all contact being cut off. I just dont get it.


Has happened to me too. Get voicemail or unanswered emails close to the day you are to meet.

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This thread is just depressing the hell out of me.

It does seem as if you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Sometimes I feel as if I'm not being clear at all, either with my interest or with my just being friendly.

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My philosophy is to try to start out with a date then make a choice from there. Friends or lovers. Otherwise it's definitely something you'd always question in the back of your mind as to could there have been more? That's my take here...

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Can you do physical things to get emotional results?

Can you make something work emotionally by doing something?

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If more men had the ideas you have CO we wouldn't be so confused. Seduction is mandatory and very fun. Licking my lips across the bar for my man is fun, his response is priceless! Ok, been there done that! What is bad is the nerd that thinks it's for him and comes right over only to have your date about clobber him! Hey, I can still remember that!lol

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hrmmm...I guess I'm just me, I have never really thought about approaches or how to seduce/attrack someone. For me it just boils down to they like me or they dont?

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Quote from trish2010:
hrmmm...I guess I'm just me, I have never really thought about approaches or how to seduce/attrack someone. For me it just boils down to they like me or they dont?


<----------very well liked....indeed

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trish, some people have a naturally flirty nature. Others learn it, and others should just never try it because it comes off fake! Being yourself is most important! Learning how to recognize certain looks, mannerisms takes time and studying alot of people!

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This thread reminds me of the age old sport of fencing...it incorporates agility, strength, coordination, balance, timing, and strength. In fencing, physical ability is just as important is having a strong mental edge.

The words block, parry and re-post, and offensive and defensive techniques comes to mind..

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It's hard for us to figure a woman's interest because alot of times when we think they are flirting, they are just being friendly. I can never tell the difference. Any time a woman smiles at me, or makes any kind of small talk, I just assume she's being friendly, and leave it at that. I can always tell when a woman is interested in another guy. It's easy to spot if it's not happening to you. It seems that when women flirt, it's not really about attraction, it's just how they interact.

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Quote from lovethelake17:
This thread is just depressing the hell out of me.

It does seem as if you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Sometimes I feel as if I'm not being clear at all, either with my interest or with my just being friendly.


Honestly,

I think the topic is being over analyzed. For most guys, if he's physically attracted to a woman, there's not much that she has to do once she approaches. There are only immediate deal breakers (i.e. if she starts talking about her A.D.D). Even then some guys will excuse that flaw and give her a chance.

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I don't know ironman, there is a girl at our hangout who looks great, flirts well and then trys an intelligent conversation and loses the game totally! She thought the geese decoys were the real birds one day when the hunting channel was on! I think it takes a little more inquiry than a physical attraction!lol

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Where's the hangout?

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Quote from rubyred77:
I don't know ironman, there is a girl at our hangout who looks great, flirts well and then trys an intelligent conversation and loses the game totally! She thought the geese decoys were the real birds one day when the hunting channel was on! I think it takes a little more inquiry than a physical attraction!lol


ROFLMAO..are you serious? OMG..can you say vaccuous?(vak you us)

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I lost it! Half the guys didn't even pick up on it! They were busy thinking they had a chance!lol Wow, gotta love Ron White: You cant fix stupid!!!!!

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Quote from rubyred77:
I don't know ironman, there is a girl at our hangout who looks great, flirts well and then trys an intelligent conversation and loses the game totally! She thought the geese decoys were the real birds one day when the hunting channel was on! I think it takes a little more inquiry than a physical attraction!lol


LOL!! That's hilarious!

Like I said some things are instant deal breakers.......but depending on the guy and the level of attraction, he'll still give her a chance. Although later on he might regret his decision.

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Quote from ironmuscle:
Honestly,

I think the topic is being over analyzed. For most guys, if he's physically attracted to a woman, there's not much that she has to do once she approaches. There are only immediate deal breakers (i.e. if she starts talking about her A.D.D). Even then some guys will excuse that flaw and give her a chance.


Really? You seriously believe that every woman that walks up to a man and says, "hey, I'm interested in you, let's talk"...ends up talking to that man and not scaring the bejesus out of him?

I'm not saying physical attraction isn't important, however, I don't agree that it holds the sole importance that you are playing it out to. I think men are much more intelligent creatures and have more depth than that.



Lake...I know, I know. I almost cried over a damn email.


Alex, I agree but it also applies in the real world..it's not just an internet fantasy issue.


Settee, interesting comparison.



general..it's more than a just basic disinterest in a person. That one isn't that hard to figure out. It's actually about intimidating a man to the point of scaring him off,..and where those boundaries are.

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Quote from rubyred77:
I lost it! Half the guys didn't even pick up on it! They were busy thinking they had a chance!lol Wow, gotta love Ron White: You cant fix stupid!!!!!


Put a smile on my face, thanks!

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I don't think lasting love can be built without physical attraction right up front! 20 years down the road don't you need the WOW when he walks in the room? Thats a big part of lasting love isn't it?

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Several women in my life have stated that they felt all efforts to seduce were wasted. I'm so used to BS from women, flirting to me is almost totally ignored. Now give me a woman that just stands in front of me eye to eye No games, no what if's, ect.

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Quote from ldroftrollops:
Really? You seriously believe that every woman that walks up to a man and says, "hey, I'm interested in you, let's talk"...ends up talking to that man and not scaring the bejesus out of him?


Some guys let their lower organs overpower their upper organs. Like I said some things are instant deal breakers (i.e. batting of the eyelashes). But depending on the level of physical attraction some guys will tolerate more and regret their decision later.

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Quote from trish2010:
hrmmm...I guess I'm just me, I have never really thought about approaches or how to seduce/attrack someone. For me it just boils down to they like me or they dont?



Seduce/attack...I like that lol

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Some games are worth playing! Are you just looking for a (for no better word) screw? Games through history have proven to bring results through a different means. Looking at my pic and profile, do you really think I could be serious constantly? My friends know to watch out for me, I'm a brat! No, I don't want someone to just come up and say lets @+#! I'm [email protected]!

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Quote from ldroftrollops:
So, I was chatting in email with a fellow dh'er. Who stated a comment that said "men don't want to be propositioned, they want to be seduced".


I don't disupute that, and I know it don't apply to the hit it and quit it guys, players, and the assortment of undesirables. It only applies to the average guy lookin' for the same thing we are.


So, my thoughts on this, at the moment are somewhere along this ride, I've lost my ability to be "meek and mild", I just can't pull it off. I can bat my eyelashes and smile till the sun comes up, but, once I have a sincere interest in someone, it's obvious, and that seems to backfire one me, like you wouldn't believe. Anything different than that seems like a "game" to me, and I'm not into keeping score.


So, my question is for the guys, but I'd love women's input as well...

So boys, what do you personally respond to? Do you lose interest when she starts showing it?


I am so in a serious mood today....Lets see...you want an honest opinion of one guy?
Ladies...listen up

Reach out...show your interest..be very forward... because the guys that are the true gentlemen, the kind you are describing are holding back. They are the ones that do not want to treat a lady poorly. They are waiting for that one to come along and not just bat their eyes, but almost hit them upside the head.

But thats not all...once you do that you must continue the allure. You have to use all your charms, to keep the seduction going. Its not just the initial how-do-you-do. Its all of it. If he loses interest its just because you weren't that interesting.

Men are very basic creatures, just wanting from a beautiful woman what they can not get on their own...But we want it all and there is nothing like seduction...Leave all the inhibitions at home...we are not in high school anymore. Show us how much of a woman you really are...not just the act of dropping your drawers...but the whole deal.

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Quote from rubyred77:
Some games are worth playing! Are you just looking for a (for no better word) screw? Games through history have proven to bring results through a different means. Looking at my pic and profile, do you really think I could be serious constantly? My friends know to watch out for me, I'm a brat! No, I don't want someone to just come up and say lets @+#! I'm [email protected]!


I don't play games, I choose to do a dance.

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Quote from broadcaster1:
I do my own thing regardless

Too many eye lid batting and one gets immune to it

What do I mean I do my own thing?

This morning (Saturday) my usual ritual I went fishing (prospecting) I got tired in the book shop sat down to a cup of coffee I noticed a woman in her mid forties sitting opposite alone. Usual surveillance reveals ,no rings no male lurking etc. She seems agitated looking around etc

So I went to her and said

"Yours didn't turn up ? mine neither!" she was for a second either horrified or shocked but then very quickly smiled.

so while she was drinking her coffee and I was drinking mine we talked for an hour. I will be buying lunch tomorrow and who knows? I do my own thing regardless



usually I dont care for your input, ...... today.. I must say.. I found that to be extremely

SEXY, and HOT.

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There are levels of seduction...starting with 'looks' 'smiles' 'flirts' and then
moving into little touches.....

Hey, if you want somebody to be interested in you, show that you are interested in them....

Seduction works when done with class....your friend is correct!

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rubyred77
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Ok, this is for you and trish...get with friends, go to the popular bar and observe people in their single rituals! You will see so much! Some work some dont but You may find out you like the idea of some of the rituals and try them on the opposite sex! Learning can be very fun!!!!!!

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Cin, I'm with you, babe..

Any man I'm interested in is gonna know it..he won't have to play guessing games. My ego is sufficiently intact and I get 'no means no'...and 'maybe' means diddle..

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Quote from alexinwondrlnd:
i think the physical attraction must start in the real world..u get vibes from people that u dont get via the internet..sure u can be attracted to someone online but in a sense its a shallow attraction its all about what u think the other person is not in reality what the other person is..so when it comes down to the meet people tend to back out without regard cuz they really dont know who they are goin to meet and are afraid it may not be as good as it was online..cuz really its about gut instict when choosing a potential mate and u must be present to win


I just re-read this one...and I agree, the inflated online persona is a complicated one for anyone to live up to. In regards to online only... should one just not meet ever to prevent that, or learn to control their projections of perfection on to an unknowing person?

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The woman I am seeing and I meet once a month, kind of like a mini vacation. When we met to go to the Monterey Aquarium, I had fought rush hour traffic and was already upset with the motel for a mixup in our room. When I walked through the door, she was dressed in this sexy little black dress and she had paper rose petals spread on the bed and all over. The table set for dinner, candles lit and wine opened. Yep, made me forget about why I was tired and pissed off and we had a great evening. I love to be seduced and she did it quite well.

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Quote from _settee:
Cin, I'm with you, babe..

Any man I'm interested in is gonna know it..he won't have to play guessing games. My ego is sufficiently intact and I get 'no means no'...and 'maybe' means diddle..




I agree...And i think Neo made a great point to that..I have to go back and find it.